"Expectations just hurt you, never wait for response"

An Observation 

She is a kid below 3 years and much active, naughty, smiling and off course a clever fox! She entertains all family members at large and do not let even single member sitting silent for minute. 

Now she started going school or play group. Her daily routine changes with more dedication towards friends and creativity. She goes to school everyday, completes light home works, learns small activities, manners, social activities, plays with friends, entertains family members, birthday celebration, remembers few relatives and help mother-father or grandparents in small task in home. She runs here and there, talks to everyone, care for everyone and love all family members. I am unable to count her daily work as it is a big list.

Now she is growing and started attending middle school. She has lots of goal like school home work, class work, assignments, teachers taunt, friends dispute, tuition class, social status in between friends, seeking parents time, helping mother in household work, helping father in outside activities, planning outdoor trips for family, shopping, planning birthdays, and the list goes on…..

Now she is a young girl having lots of issues like college studies, career tension, typical boys following from home to college and college to coaching, so much missed calls, whats app messages, Facebook photographs, mother’s helping hand, father’s financial issues but after all she care for everyone and try to keep all family members happy.

Hurray! she got married. Whether it is  love marriage or love marriage, no matters, she is just an India. She started new life with lots of responsibilities and dreams. She is working in a organisations, working for household activities, managing entire home, managing office, caring for laws, shy to share issues with parents, social taunt, financial issue, having a kid, deteriorating health, Boss (office) orders and pressure, husband ignorance sometime (being busy in work), seeking attention, food and breakfast demand of family members  etc etc. But she failed to make complaint of her own health issues. and missing her parents but cannot say. Sometime she cry in bathroom but forget to share the worries. She has to create a happy environment for entire family. 

  

To be continued.......

Don't be superstitious at all!

Once i read some where that 'Bhukhe pet Bhajan na Hoye' and i agree this. Even i like to follow this strictly. 

I went through several comments that you are not fasting for this and that to please the God. I replied that i fast for selected  festivals as i am not healthy for the same. But people start criticizing that this important for this and that...bla...bla...bla. What nonsense is this? When you would not be healthy enough and having several health issues, how can you fast for God? You have to take medicine on time and its ingredients are pathetic. Why to follow this superstition? 
I think God himself understand the problem of every one and even He has created all these issue. So i opine not to be so superstitious and live the way you want. :) 

Costly clay made idol dampen spirit of eco-friendly festival

No doubt, people are influenced with the eco-friendly campaigns being taken out by NGOS and government but skyrocketing price of clay made idols distracting the celebrators.

When government and everyone is promoting eco-friendly celebration, they should also work towards price control of such idols. A normal size clay made idols are being sold for Rs 2000 or 3000 while PoP pieces are available for Rs 200 or 300. 

Despite ban and several awareness programmes, people prefer to get Ganesha idol sculpted with Plaster of Paris (PoP) just because of low cost and better designing. Many shopkeepers are also trying to mislead the shoppers by selling PoP idols on name of clay. As many people do not recognise the originality of clay made idols, shopkeepers are promoting PoP idols by saying that it is made with mixture of clay and PoP.  

I also agree that clay and it’s designing cost huge to the artist but what about the middle class families having fixed budget for the festival.

Today's lesson

"Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind"

Corrigendum  

 For past few months, I am receiving several emails regarding unpaid advertisement on my blog space. They ask me to mention their name or product on my space. Even in subject line they write ‘working with you’ and express that I have most informative and articulate ideas, points and write ups. They speak in a humble way and convey message that they are needy most, self funded bla bla….. It seems I would be most liberal and genius personality after sharing their ads on my space. They opine, few lines will not be taxing me and it would help them at most. But they forget that they are seeking advertisement of their products which is literally a business. Moreover business is always successful with ‘give and take’ policy.